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Study Says Pressuring Kids To Diet Can Backfire

A new study suggests that trying to force your kids to diet or eat healthier, may actually have the opposite effect.

According to USA Today, the researchers found that parents who urge their kids to diet might actually be increasing their odds of obesity later in life. The study, which was conducted at the University of Minnesota, also determined that pressuring kids, especially teens, to diet was also linked to an increased risk for eating disorders.

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The phenomenon can even stretch across generations, said study lead author Jerica Berge, professor and vice chair for research in the Department of Family Medicine and Community Health at the University.

“This new study was conducted over many years, and we can see that these messages stay with someone longitudinally — someone who had [experienced] it now does that to their kid, passing it on, giving it to the next generation,” said Berge.

One expert who works with kids who battle eating disorders wasn’t surprised by the findings. “We work with young people with serious eating disorders, and we work very closely with parents,” said Ana Ojeda, a clinical psychologist specializing in pediatric patients at Nicklaus Children’s Hospital in Miami.

“Some of our kids are hospitalized,” explained Ojeda, who wasn’t involved in the new study. “When you combine eating disorders with depression, anxiety or their own body image, it can lead to very bad consequences. We definitely do not encourage parents to make a foolish focus on a child’s weight. At certain developmental stages, it can be very damaging to self-esteem.”

In the Minnesota study, Berge’s group looked at data from surveys completed by more than 1,100 adolescents from the Minneapolis-St. Paul area from 1998 to 1999. Nearly two-thirds of those surveyed were girls. The respondents then filled out follow-up surveys at five-year intervals beginning in 2003, until they entered their 30s.

By the third survey, more than 40% of young women and 27% of young men said they received encouragement from their mothers to diet to stay slim. About 20% of young females and 18% of young males said they’d gotten similar messages from their dads.

The study couldn’t prove a direct cause-and-effect, but parental pressure to get and stay slim was associated with poorer health in young adulthood, the study found. There seemed to be a cumulative effect on adult behaviors centered on weight, weight-related behaviors, and psychosocial well-being, the Minneapolis team found.

For example, by the end of the study — 15 years after the first questionnaires had been filled out — girls who’d been pressured to diet had a 49% higher odds of being obese young adult compared to girls who hadn’t gotten that parental pressure. Boys who had a similar experience had a 13% higher odds of becoming obese young men, the researchers reported.

So What’s a Mom to Do?

The team determined that constant messaging about dieting from parents was also linked to higher odds for poor self-esteem, body satisfaction and depression in young adulthood. Berge was quick to point out that none of this means that parents who encourage dieting are trying to make their kids unhappy or unhealthy.

“Parents are well-meaning and doing the best for their kids,” she said. “They want them to be as healthy as possible, but they often undermine themselves with the language they use, making a kid feel guilty or ashamed and much less able to change, because they feel about bad about themselves internally.”

She said parents can still encourage healthier eating by taking a different approach, one that involves less shaming.

“If you say something about someone’s weight, it’s internalized as shaming, and it doesn’t lead to behavioral change,” she said. “So, we’re trying to refocus people’s language on eating healthy. We relate it to something kids like to do. If your kid likes soccer, focus on the fact that eating right can help you run faster on the team. Whatever is of interest to your teen, hone in on that and tell them eating well is for that purpose, not focusing on weight.”

She also reminded parents that what they do, is just as important as what they say.

“Parents who create a home environment where healthier choices are easier to make — fruits and vegetables are available, minimizing junk food, modeling healthy behaviors themselves — are more likely to be effective, rather than telling your teen she or he needs to lose weight.”

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  1. Yes!! I do this, our family eats healthy and most of us are slim (by genetics!). However my 15 year old daughter has not inherited that gene. I do my best to NOT shame her, and have always done my best to keep my family healthy. We just do not eat junk! However, she is fixated on it, and claims to not be hungry when I put a healthy meal on front of her. Instead, she buys herself snacks and junkfood, and eats it at school. The harder I fight, the more she pushes back. She weighs as much as I do, and I am 3 times her age!! What am I to do??

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