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Immigration – For Want of the American Dream

The current immigration conversation is a topic I am passionate about. After all, my family came here from Cuba in 1966, when I was a wee tot. Once Castro’s policies started to tighten its grasp around the throat of the Cuban people, a large exodus ensued from the island nation with thousands leaving by boats and landing on Florida’s shores/beaches. This was known as Camarioca Boat Lift of 1965. As a means to manage the large egress, the United States and Cuba came to an accord allowing Cuban exiles to leave the island by plane, this was known as Freedom Flights. Empty planes would depart Miami, twice daily, five days per week, and head to Cuba to pick up usually about 80 some passengers, mostly families with young children.

There were four principal reasons for the U.S. policy regarding Cuban immigrants and their preferential treatment. One of the reasons was simply, Cold War politics. After the Missile Crisis, US. and Cuba relations deteriorated, the U.S. had real concerns due to the close proximity of Cuba to the U.S. (a mere 90 miles from Key West), especially since Castro had espoused his regime to the Soviet Union, and that was a national security concern for the U.S. eastern border. The other reason was that the U.S. wanted to reduce and manage administrative hassles for immigrants flooding to the shores of Florida. With thousands arriving by boat daily, during those days, without technology, processing those non-English speaking arrivals was a monumental endeavor. Then there were humanitarian concerns with reports coming out of executions and imprisonment without due process. Anti-Castro Archivo reported 4,000 executions from 1959-2016; the Black Book of Communism has that number at 15,000-17,000. However, the most important reason was the prospect of gaining professionals, businessmen and skilled trade workers who were perceived to be a positive impact on the U.S. economy. Cuba’s loss was viewed as a gain for the U.S.

Many Cubans who left the island had businesses there. Bacardi, comes to mind, just to mention a (now) well-known U.S. company. Others were professionals, bankers, lawyers, accountants, teachers and doctors. They worked hard to earn their U.S. credentials and became successful, contributing, American citizens. By 1970, over 60% of Cuban refugees were homeowners; an indication that the community tapped into the very definition of the American Dream, language barriers notwithstanding. Also, Cubans tend to send their kids to private schools, usually parochial, and therefore, the community was not much of a burden on the public school system.

Many of those are professionals throughout the U.S. today; one example is Roberto Cantera, CEO the Coca-Cola Company (1980 until his death in 1997). Other 60’s Cubans signed up early on for training programs and developed trades, plumbing, mechanic, electricity, contractors and builders. For instance, my father was a carpenter in Cuba, when he arrived in the U.S., he started working almost immediately joining the carpenter’s union, making a decent wage. After completing assembly line training, my mother worked nights for the Zenith factory assembling television and radios. She was also a gifted seamstress and worked during the day and weekends in clothing factories or at home on side projects to earn a decent living.

Back on the island, the romanticism of the Castro Revolution began to quickly turn to disappointment and fear. Quiet questions began a brewing, why was the Castro regime confiscating firearms? Why was there no freedom of expression, association, movement, assembly, religion or media other than state-sponsored media aka propaganda. We know it as the mainstream media in the U.S. today. Disappearances, arbitrary arrests in the middle of the night, beatings and executions by firing squad were becoming the norm. One neighbor could overhear a conversation and based on his/her interpretation, they would report you and you would be arrested. A message was being sent to the public early on, conform or lose everything, including your life. The regime confiscated properties, farms, and businesses and declared them the property of the “state”.

My aunt, who was a flamenco dancer and singer refused to participate in the government unions for musicians. This was considered dissent and her career ended. No longer could she perform at any venue on the island, she was arrested and sent to prison. My uncle, her younger brother, voiced his opposition to the brutality of the regime early on and was scooped up along with others who had become enraged at the injustices and lies perpetrated by Castro’s regime and were speaking out. He served 10 years in Castro’s prison. He was released in the mid-70s, and left Cuba by way of Venezuela, later settling in the U.S.

Once my family came to terms with the reality that Castro’s revolution was antithetical to the hope and change promised; my father applied to leave the island with the family in tote. Sadly, some of our relatives remained as their sons were of military age (16) and would have to complete at least a 2-year service. Those relatives still live in Cuba today. Fortunately, my brother was just shy of the military age and we left as a family. Some were not as fortunate.

It was a difficult situation, my mother left her entire family behind. Her nephews were of military age and would not be allowed to leave Cuba, therefore her brothers and sister would not leave their young sons behind. My father-in-law who had the same first and last name as a man the government was looking for was separated from his family as they waited at the airport to board their Freedom Flight in 1966. His pregnant wife and two young sons were forced to board their flight and leave Cuba. They were told that he would follow after the identity issues were cleared up. It took over 2 years before he was granted permission to leave the island. Castro’s goon reveled in separating families and terrorizing its citizens.

Once we arrived in the U.S., we were processed via the Freedom Tower in Miami, Florida. Today that is a monument to the Cuban’s flight to freedom. There were medical exams, vaccinations, lots of paperwork and forms to fill out. Once processed, families were usually relocated to northern states. We were sent to Chicago; others went to New York and New Jersey among other northern states.

Adjusting to Chicago’s windy city was not easy, especially for a bunch of Caribbeans. The first winter was brutal for the adults but a blast for us kids. Cars literally buried under snow and no school. Temps were below zero and skin chafing winds off of Lake Michigan kept our cheeks rosy. We adapted, assimilated and became part of the community. Within a few years and by working long days and nights, my parents were able to purchase a two-story duplex in Chicago. We never asked for handouts or government assistance; we came here to work and be a part of the American experience. That is immigration, not this new anti-American, anti-Constitution, anti-Rule of Law, give-me give-me, “you’re racist” gems that are here today.

Times were different then, immigrants came here for want of the American Dream. They came here to work hard and raise their families in freedom. There were no handouts, section 8 housing, TANF, CHIP, SNAP, WIC, or any of those democrat jewels. If you wanted a piece of the American Dream, you worked for it. My how we need that mentality again today. The Catholic Church and other charities, not the government, were the source of early assistance and it was short lived. Assimilation was the best means of attaining the American Dream and becoming a U.S. citizenship was an honor earned and not an entitlement demanded via amnesty.

Within 8 years of arriving, my family became U.S. citizens through naturalization. We were so proud. I still remember raising my right hand and taking the oath, and pledging allegiance to the flag, of the United States of America and to the Republic for which it stands, one Nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. I was nine years old. To this day, I get chills when I hear the National Anthem and I am ever grateful that my parents had the foresight to leave their native land behind and bring me to America.

Unfortunately, this is not the case with most of these so-called Dreamers. These folks do not believe in, or respect the rule of law of the United States, neither do their illegal parents. Many do not assimilate and a whopping 74.8% are on some form of government assistance. The majority of the illegals crossing the border do so with three things in mind. Welfare, Subsidized Housing and Healthcare. This is an undisputed fact.

Sure there are those who come to work, sending billions of U.S. Dollars back to their native countries, which does not help our economy in anyway. Many take advantage of the childcare credit and receive tax refunds, even though having paid little to no taxes. Its an outrage. They cross the border illegally, and then abscond throughout the country stealing identities, buying social security cards, driver’s licenses and applying for and receiving government assistance. They barely speak or read English yet they drive on our roads and highways. They burden the public school systems in every state they migrate to, all illegally, especially in California.

We are importing poverty and illiteracy. 40% of the illegals have less than a high school education. Of those graduating (so-called dreamers) 5-10% pursue higher education and fewer still successfully graduate. These people either bring their children here illegally or give birth here in order to anchor themselves to the U.S. and the welfare system they would otherwise not qualify for. They have their kids here and their kids are under the mistaken idea that because they are born in the U.S., they are automatically considered American citizens. That is just not so.

The intent of the 14th Amendment is clear: “Every person born within the limits of the United States, and subject to their jurisdiction, is by virtue of natural law and national law a citizen of the United States. This will not, of course, include persons born in the United States who are foreigners, aliens, who belong to the families of ambassadors or foreign ministers accredited to the Government of the United States, but will include every other class of persons. This settles the great question of citizenship and removes all doubt as to what persons are or are not citizens of the United States.” The interpretation of this Amendment has been a great source of misinterpretation in DC and among the population.

The idea that people crossing the U.S. border illegally and then having children results in those kids being U.S. citizens, is absurd and a garden that only grows in the warped mind of Democrats and RINOs. As an American, if you go to any country and have your child there, see if your child is granted citizenship? Of course not. A child is the nationality of its parents. Why we have allowed Democrats, progressive, globalist and shamefully some Republicans to take over this conversation and skew the Constitution for their own agenda and political gain is something I will never understand and will speak out against at every opportunity.

How can an illegal bestow citizenship to their kids just because those kids are born in the U.S., or came here illegally as children? This is a gross misinterpretation of the 14th Amendment of the Constitution. This question no doubt has to go to the Supreme Court of the United States; and clarification and legal interpretation of the 14th Amendment must be settled once and for all. It may also take a Convention of States in order to finally settle this issue surrounding the 14th Amendment to our Constitution.

My family and millions of other immigrants came here legally, and have obeyed the laws of this nation since they set foot on U.S. soil. My family has never asked for, nor received, any form of welfare, food stamps, healthcare or subsidized housing. My family never felt entitled to anything this country had to offer and worked to earn everything they ever had or have. We love this country, we pledge allegiance to the flag and demand nothing of anyone but ourselves. That is the real story of the American Dream.

Those people we see on television, DACAs, dreamers, illegals, storming congressional and senatorial offices demanding amnesty and calling Americans racists if we disagree, those are the very people that have no place in our Nation.  Why those staffers just sat there and did not call ICE to come and take those illegals out is the very reason they get away with these shenanigans.   Americans must stand firm in our support of the rule of law. We must stop the bastardization of the 14th Amendment that Democrats and Progressives are using to do us under.

If we don’t…if we don’t, then we deserve whatever foreign embodiment and transformation of our beloved country we end up with.

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  1. Spot on and thankyou from an Aussie who would also love to move to the US. i would never try to go there illegally unless there was civil war and i was going to help patriotic Americans in their fight for freedom. Damn the rest to hell and the communist cesspools they would so love to turn America into. our onwn traitorous govt here in australia are doing the same thing as is going on in the US however most australians either dont care or are of a socialist mindset themselves in part due to the strong union movement here

    • Its difficult when you lose your country to a foreign ideology. In the case of Cubans, Fidel Castro was Cuban and he romanced the masses with promises of being for the people. That always sounds so good, and he was in fact for the people. The people who espoused his ideology. Otherwise, you were a worm, a traitor and worthy of imprisonment and death. I wish you success in immigrating to the U.S. Its unfortunate that the Australian people have relinquished their homeland to an ideology that motivates its citizens to flee. I will pray for you and your countrymen. Stay strong!

  2. Miss Suarez your article was very correct my grandfather & grandmother & 1 child came from Sicily, learned English in nite school, became citizens and never took anything from the government except naturalization papers, worked for everything they got! Unfortunately, because my grandparents were so happy& proud to be Americans that my parents always had to speak English so they & we kids never were able to learn Italian as a second language because as my grandfather used to say we are in America so speak English: they assimilated and were very proud to be Americans. In fact, I have noticed that everyone I have every met that came to this country legally has assimilated without taking any help from the government.

    • Mr. Valenti, thank you for your comment. Fortunately, I learned to speak spanish at home but like your grandfather did not do such a good job with my own kids. While they understand spanish, their spoken fluency is poor. This is only a problem in the workplace where speaking more than one language is always a plus. I agree that those who come here legally and work for their American Dream and citizenship do assimilate easily. That is the abhorrent side of illegal immigration. Democrats then make Americans feel as if they are hateful because we demand that these illegal be deported or sent to the back of the line. I don’t know what is going to happen, but this illegal form of immigration either has to end, or we will be transformed into some abomination of mixed nationalities with no allegiance to anything. Its a scary thought.

  3. As a longtime resident and 7th generation of Texas, I can certainly tell you that I have had my fill of dealing with illegal immigrants. For years, we have had pregnant illegals come to have their child in the US so they may stay here. This “trick” has been going on since I was young. I am in my seventies now. Think how many generations have come from one illegal. We are living with the drug cartel that President Trump spoke about recently. When I graduated from high school, there were 85% Caucasians and 15% Mexicans. Today that percentage has reversed—85% Mexicans and 15% Caucasians. The Mexican population has boomed since I graduated. The newspaper is now very liberal and LaRaza has a large following. We have servers in our restaurants that cannot speak a word of English and I am sure they are here illegally. LaRaza made a statement years ago that they would take Texas back someday. I think they have made good on their promise. At this point in my life, I want every illegal deported. They have no business here nor do they have any say in whether they are deported. That’s the way the law works. They are bringing with them diseases we have eradicated years ago. Our country cannot support anymore of these people. I am sick and tired of supporting these people with my hard earned money. When my generation dies, then the rest of you will support them via welfare. I want the wall built and ALL illegals deported. I would prefer our borders be closed. If the liberals are so against deportation, then they need to support them with their own money. The name of the game is to dilute our sense of being American and for more democrat voters. This is the leftist policy in their wish to overthrow our government. You who came here from Cuba should recognize this fact. The goal is to join us with Mexico and Canada as one block that will be controlled by the UN. In other words a part of a one world government. So, you better get ready and learn who your enemies are here in this country. You had better worry about sending your children to public school to be brainwashed and learning nothing like when I went to school. When I graduated most of us were prepared for the workforce. College was not necessary unless you chose the medical field or other specialized fields. We studied and knew our Constitution and how to do complicated math skills. We knew how to spell and write. Schools today do not teach these skills. I know because I later became a teacher. I could go on and on with information that some of you have no idea is coming down the tube. Educate yourself by knowing who your elected officials are and how they vote. Go on line and know what is going on in our country so you can make the best decisions for your family. You are watching the deterioration of our country right now. I can guarantee you that if they ban guns altogether, this will be the end of our freedom. God forbid if that happens. Thanks for listening to an old lady who has seen much in this world. I would hope more than anything that everything I have said was completely wrong.

    • Hi Lyn. Thank you for your thoughtful words. I am very much aware of what is happening to our nation. I am sickened by the way that the average American has tuned out and allowed the left to take over the conversation and thereby destroy our great nation. I see what is coming down the pike, but I dont see how we are going to stop this out of control train. The deep state has its hands all over our government agency and it is going to take a tremendous feat to eliminate this monstrous entity infesting the halls of Congress and even the Oval Office. Our current president, best intentioned as he is, is being mislead by those around him who are really part of the very deep state, he is trying to undo. I dont know where we go from here, or how we defeat this monster. Only providence can assist us with this, but are we worthy?

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